I find that accepting pleas through the internet is usually a great way to be contacted by fantasy-driven people...and this always ends up being a huge waste of time for me and them. So, I INSIST that you read this entire page before emailing me. It will be obvious to me, quickly, if you haven't.

The short version: I’m looking for a male slave hopefully between 25 and 40 (but this point is negotiable) who will kneel, serve and follow my leadership in everyday life yet be able to be the aggressor for sex. I don’t mind doing the occasional sexual Topping (‘cause variety is important and fun!), but I’m much happier if I sexually bottom and get to be the more passive partner…to what I want, when I want it. So, obviously, I might be the sexual bottom, but I’m still very much the Dominant and Master. The worst (or best) of topping from the bottom!

The long version: All that being said, I want to make it clear that I am looking for a man who has slave heart; inside him is something that can only be fulfilled being in service to another. If you decide to email me, tell me that you are contacting me through my website. I still want this person to be a bottom for SM play, just be aware that it’s most likely foreplay for me so he’ll need to be able to switch from SM bottom to sexual Top fairly easily.

I’m also looking for someone who has a degree of spiritual awareness. Notice that I said above that his service to another ‘fulfills’ him, not ‘completes’ him. Finding fulfillment in service to another implies following am inner calling; needing completeness from another implies a negative attachment to outside approval. If you don’t totally understand that, it’s ok. Message me and ask some questions; it might just be an understanding of semantics.

I want someone who is interested in a 24/7, live-in, Master/slave, service oriented relationship. I want to build a poly household/family and this person will be the start of the part of that family that lives with me, each person in the family having household duties and a place in said household. Yes, this means I want him to clean…and cook…and landscape. Does it mean that I want him to do only this? No. I cannot afford to ‘keep’ him; he is going to have to work outside the home. In your email, tell me your favorite color. Does this mean I expect him to work AND do everything around the house? No. We will adjust duties accordingly; I’m not an unreasonable person. The duties that I want someone else to do are on a hierarchal system. For example, I hate to clean bathrooms and do dishes, but I will do laundry and cook if that’s what’s needed to make things work.

I want someone who will be content with a double standard; I am sexually poly, he is not. I want at least one male in my life who is only for me sexually. While by definition, that would be a cuckhold relationship, it is unlikely that it will be the cuckhold fetish fantasy of him getting to watch, or interact with, me and my other partners. Tell me, if you contact me, the difference between what I am requesting and a cuckhold fantasy. It is more me being possessive of my property.

I want someone who enjoys the bulk of my fetishes, in particular blood play and vampirism. One of the reasons I want this person just for me sexually is that he will also be my donor. That means I am blood bonded to him (which is a one-way bond). This implies no intravenous drug use or high risk of exposure to blood born pathogens. He should be able to show test results, or be willing to be tested, WHEN, not if, I request. I am willing to do the same.

Finally, I want someone who either already interacts with his local and national communities or is interested in doing such. A man who cannot do this openly should not apply; I am out on a national level, and in some ways, a world level. If he needs to be completely private about who his is, I doubt we can make this work. If it’s simply a matter of not connecting his scene name and his real name, that can work, but he should know that there is some risk.

What I have to offer

I know what I want…or, more usually, what I don’t want, and can articulate these. I have quirks…like don’t talk to me in the morning if it can be avoided. If we can work out a totally silent routine for the mornings, I’ll be one happy Master.

I’m fluid and rely on my intuition a lot. This means that I’m a patient person. When I state what I want, and I see there is struggle with it, I am often willing to wait for that surrender. Usually, the struggle comes from the slave assuming the intent behind my order/directive. At this point in your email, type the words Fox in Sock. Often, they have assumed the wrong intent and once the correct intent or reason is made clear, they can move past it.

I offer communication skills. I am willing to explain and speak about almost anything. Only on the rarest of occasions and only if I get a direct ‘hit’ from the Universe, will I expect blind obedience. But, I do expect obedience.

I attempt create long-term, stable relationships and feel that this can only be done through clear intent. To that end, I try to be as clear about that intent as I can be. Hence all the writing!

Finally, I want you to tell me how many paragraphs are on the page. I offer structure in the form of a household manual (which is now different from the book, if you have read that). This document is fluid and most likely will be tailored to fit our exact relationship. It’s detailed…but don’t worry, it’s not 72 pages of protocol that you have to memorize.

This has been long. If you’ve read the whole thing, I’ll be impressed. But, I also expect it from someone who is serious. I invite you to impress me.

Master Fire